Tips
from Sam Fazio and Doug Pace
from the
Alzheimer's Association
The holidays are often filled with opportunities for togetherness,
laughter and memories. They can also bring about stress, disappointment and
sadness for some people. A person living with dementia may feel a sense of loss
during the holidays because of the changes he or she has experienced or is
experiencing. At the same time, caregivers may feel overwhelmed maintaining
traditions while at the same time, providing daily care. Therefore, it is
important to adopt a person/family-focused approach to supporting individuals
living with dementia and their families during the holidays.
In the early stage, a person with Alzheimer’s may withdraw and be
less comfortable socializing, while others may enjoy seeing family and friends
as before. The key is to check in with each person and discuss options. A
simple “How are you doing?” or “How are you coping with everything?” may be
appreciated. Encourage families to plan the holidays together with the
individual living with dementia, focusing on the things that bring happiness
and letting go of activities that seem overwhelming or stressful. As the
disease progresses into the middle and late stages, families may need help
rethinking their holiday plans and traditions to simpler or low stress
activities. Everyone is unique and finding a plan that works can involve some
discussion as well as trial and error.
To get more tips like how to involve the person
living with Alzheimer's, being flexible with traditions and adapting gift
giving, check out the rest of the storyhere...
Erin Van Valkenburgh, RDN CSG CDP - Director of Clinical and Wellness Support - Mid West Region
Erin Van Valkenburgh, RDN CSG CDP - Director of Clinical and Wellness Support - Mid West Region